H text me this afternoon... H: Did you get the papers done? M: Yes, you still planning on picking up some things this weekend? H: No not sure when. M: Ok, thanks for letting me know. H: Sure, no problem.
This is what our relationship has come to at this point. At least it's civil. If I am polite to him, it seems that he is sort of polite back. That's all I can hope for now. I need him to stay sane until we get the D finalized.
Still didn't get the divorce petition from H's attorney. I really don't think that I need it. I think that I am going to sign the Judgment and 2-year waiver and send the letter to his attorney stating that I didn't sign the Entry of Appearance, Waiver, and Consent tomorrow or Saturday. This for the best. I have to sign these papers. It's been 9 months...it's time to move on. I explained to mil today that I have to do this for myself. She totally understands, just wishes that it didn't come to this. I really wish it didn't either. Now I just have to get the courage up to sign the papers...maybe tomorrow.