Why do these things happen Vlll

[789]

Another thread goes bye-bye.

I think I have decided if I hit 1000 threads then I know it is over.

[sadhearted]

Hey you too huh

Ain't over til the fat lady sings. Maybe not even then.

[789]

I figure I will never hit that many so I am safe either way.

[sadhearted]

Yeah that'd be a lot.

[789]

I am still going with just letting her go and let her do what ever it is she needs to do. It is feeling easier to go day by day. I will though go check the courthouses again on monday. Since sunday she has not said anything about divorce again, but then do they have to say it over and over, don't know. I do still need to decide on a book and a chapter pretty soon, I figure I will get it to her by monday.

[sadhearted]

She still asking for the book?

Yeah don't figure they'd need to repeat themselves. Though sometimes my converstions go around and around. Very frustrating.

[789]

She has not asked since the other day, but I figure if I don't do it soon she may change her mind.

[sadhearted]

Yeah we tend to do that a lot. Course I'm starting to think men do to or at least the one I'm with/not with.

[789]

I think it works both ways, depending on the who the WAS is.
I still though cannot fathom her standing for our marriage for 10years and when I finally wake up, she waits a couple weeks and pulls this.

[sadhearted]

Yeah that's odd. I've always been the one fighting for ours. He's done some work at times but mostly it's me. Gotta wonder what would happen if I stopped fighting. Well...probably would be divorced very soon.