Thanks for agreeing w/ me. I belive this saying what daddy is doing is wrong for him to live w/OW,but if I let them sleep over there its saying and doing another!! I know its a little late in the game ,but still confusing to them. I can see their confusion now. Also my grandfather believes this is also making it easier(cake eating as FA says) on him. I think the LRT is for me to go & file since he wont & either way he will have to make a descion.Its a chance I take but enough is enough.