Job update---or better labeled as "non job" update! Yesterday had a call from my second interview asking about my interest and if I had more questions. I told her I was concerned about the long drive and of course, we hadn't discussed salary at all. She said the salary offer would have to come from the administrator, but she made it clear it wouldn't be near my asking salary. After thinking about it during the night (and in view of D16's escapades the other day) I decided I did not need to be 1 to 1 1/2 hour away (current job is about a 20 minute drive). Any extra salary would be taken up with the cost of gas. I will keep looking. Meanwhile, I need to reframe my attitude toward my current job!