He just called to let me know he was just leaving work. By the time he gets home there won't be time to get a nice dinner and make it to the comedy club. He *did* suggest going to a movie instead. (The only thing going on tonight at any comedy clubs was a place that takes an old "b" movie, mutes the soundtrack and then talks over the top and does sound effects and dialog. Sort of like MST3K.) So, even though *we* won't be going tonight, I definitely plan to go in the future.

This morning HE was the one that said Happy Anniversary. He gave me a kiss goodbye, went out to the garage and then stuck his head back in the door and said "oh! Happy Anniversary" and I said "yeah-you too".

*sigh* I don't understand why he has to do this; and in particular why he doesn't hold out much hope for reconciliation.

Onward and upward!

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing