I posted on your other thread too (and recommended that you try and keep things to one thread just so they are easier to follow).
But as for where... don't make the decision based on her. Make it based on what's best for you (emotionally, physically, financially).
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread