OT - thanks for clarifying. I did understand what you meant about focusing on my own needs more, just mentioned the "you don't have to.." in response to ST's comment.

haha I love your "animal" descriptions, I just laughed so hard I choked on the water I was drinking!! \:D What a crazy zoo THAT would be...

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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