I know, I know...snooping is bad....but I did it..

[mkultra]

Yes, you did get married young but that is no excuse to give up on your marriage. Being married to a military person has extra complications since there are upheavals every few years but stability in the marriage is pretty crucial. If you want, you can let him know that you cannot stop him from leaving but that you will love him through it all. Sometimes they just need to know that they have someone waiting for them. I am not an expert since my H is still not home but the first time he left for boot camp was hard. We broke up and that time was harder than it is now. He is also a Gulf War Vet but after 9 years we found each other. That is one of the reasons why I am trying so hard to save this because we already lost each other. He has so many trust issues because I did not wait for him after the war ended.