Abandoned Newlywed

[NikB]

Quick comment - you'll get more/better advice if you keep all your posts to one thread, instead of posting in several different areas or posting questions separately.

Just makes it easier for people to follow you and keep up with your specific sitch.

Sorry I was confused on the house thing, I thought you had to leave the apt. due to not being able to afford it, I didn't realize it was just a "lease is up" situation.

I'd say then... which do YOU want to live in? House, or apt? There are pros and cons to each. Write them out for yourself, and see which one you'd be happier with. Don't make it about your W - you have no control over her anyway. As I saw mentioned on one of your other threads, if she does decide to come back, this won't matter much. It won't be the reason why or why not (and really... let's say it was... do you want her back only because you rented the "right" place????).

I really don't think you should be responsible for her stuff. Maybe others will chime in.. but you shouldn't have to pack it, store it, etc.