She sounds beyond cold feet as I mentioned before. If she has a history of doing this pattern then she really needs the space to be alone. Unfortunatley, she may repeat this pattern. Work on yourself and this may model proper behavior to her. Don't feed into the game of bickering. Be patient and do not panic. Easier said than done as I LOST IT TWICE TODAY!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."