Sorry to hear about your hernia, I remember getting one when I was in the Navy, and not doing anything about it for around 18 months, it felt like I had an extra testicle at times
Keep doing what you are doing, I am sure your sitch will go in a different direction to mine.
I will get my new place in order before you guys visit I have already designed the home cinema that I have always wanted, and a few other things (like a hot tub in the lounge room). Well maybe not in the lounge room, but it would be kinda cool.
AndyV
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."