This is my third thread within the last month. My W literally abandoned me a few days ago after a month of separation with no contact. We have only been married just under a year. She left everything connected to us, wedding albums, pics, even clothes that I had bought for her or she had bought to wear for me. In fact, I told her she could have anything she needed to get a new start, and she left most of our appliances, her makeup bag, perfume and winter clothes. This is her second M in 5 years, and she walked out on the first guy too, also pointing blame on him for the fault of the failed M. She is in her mid 20's, me in my mid 30's, and though we have a history of fighting and making up passionately, her leaving was drastic, unexpected and cold. She is now under her parent's roof and saving for her own place, though her job doesn't pay well enough where she will be able to save enough anytime soon, especially considering she will need new furniture and appliances, all of which she left with me. She left a note saying she was sorry she couldn't love me enough and that she didn't care about what she left behind. We have always fought, though circumstances have been very trying lately as she has suffered some health problems. I have to be out of our place within a week, and I am overwhelmed with all of the things I must sort out, pack and throw away, as well as the bills she left me with and having to fit time in to look for a new place of my own. She always wanted us to get out of apt life and rent a house, and eventually buy one. I am thinking maybe I shouldn't go for an apt, but a rental house with a nice yard, just in case she may want to return. My soul feels like it has twisted into a piece of hamburger, and I do not know whether she has filed yet or not, though she has been full of surprises lately. Ben DB'ing for nearly a month to no avail. Please read my other posts for the full background on our sitch:
