My little glimmer of hope just fizzled out

[JMC]

Kaydeekay - thanks for the post as I am in a similar state today (feeling like giving up and throwing in the towel). However, my separation has only been 5+ months, but I know she sees some guy who has a serious girlfriend (I know this from snooping, which I have not done in three days and hope to never do again) and is interested in a guy she met recently. Seeing that you have stood in there for three years has lifted me up! Roller -thanks for the response, it has given me hope. I have decided to let her go through the process of filing. To this point she has made no mention of doing so.