Well I decided that I can no longer live like this. It's been nearly 3 years and nothing has really changed. So I sent H a text asking him if he had the money for the filing fee.
His reply: "Why all of a sudden r u ready no I do not have that money are you trying to make things hard on me I planed after xmas then I promise I will get it done remember I would go broke so u could have heat and air and also the last 2 xmas so have some consideration I have not even looked at the paper yet give me some time"
Why is he trying to sound like a saint? My furnance went out 2 years ago and it was going to cost me $500. My family paid $400 and H only paid $100. And this was during a time when he wasn't giving me any money at all. I paid my family back too. I admit he did give me a huge portion of his check for xmas 2 years ago but not this past xmas.
If he so wants to start a "new life" with OW #? and wanting to give the R 120% why don't he just get it done and over with. I really doubt that he's trying to stall ending our M. I guess I will have to be the one that comes up with money.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
