I remember an interview with a porn star on TV, and she was relating how every time she told a guy she was in the porn business, he'd say that he'd love to be a porn star and he'd be great at it.
She'd say "Really? OK, get an erection. Right now. Come on, get hard!" That would usually shut him up. The point is, only a few people can get themselves aroused on demand.
Your wife is not one of them. She can't make herself desire sex, even though she knows it would make you happy and she wants to make you happy. All she can do is give you sex, and she's willing to do that as much as you want. She's giving you everything she can. You think it's OBVIOUS what the problem is, and what the solution is, then tell us exactly what she can do to cause herself to desire sex more. Cause she doesn't know how to do that. I don't either, for that matter.
Last edited by Crazy Eddie; 07/26/0708:58 PM.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
