Mrs.cac4:

Actually, I grew up with loving parents that married for life. Nothing unusual, maybe even BORING because we did not have many problems. This is one of the reasone my wife married me, for stability.

I probably express contempt because the problem is so freaking OBVIOUS, and yet my wife makes absolutely no effort to correct the problem.

The fact that I have stayed this long I think DOES show my empathy and compassion. Many other men would have LEFT her before now.