She will come home, or I'll find it in my own mind

[Heimlich]

Damn. It seems like she may be coming around. How long can you hold out financially? Regarding child support, you've got your boy a lot, what are you paying for? I think it's fair to bring that up with her. Cutting off all financial support just feels wrong to me in your situation, like it would push her away totally. That said, and I might have missed this, are you helping with her regular living expenses? If so, that's nucking futs in my opinion.

Is it to the point where you feel comfortable having that conversation with her -- look, with your spending, I'm going to go bankrupt. To be able to provide for our boy like I want to, I'm going to have to file for D, even though I don't want to.

Beyond that, I got nothing.

BD