I wouldn't take anything he says right now as fact. I am a prime example. My wife did certain things that aggravated me early in the marriage. She may or may not have known. Anyway I started to shut her out and told her I didnt love her and i thought i was in love with someone else.
We separated for 4 1/2 mos before I found out she was messing around. Now all my old feelings have basically disappeared and I miss my wife. Two mos ago I was waiting for her to have an A. Now I'm devastated. He's probably depressed, like I was. Remember whether we say it or not we married you for a reason.