Amy -As always, thanks for the great advice. My WAW called me awhile ago in response to an email I sent her asking her a question about our house and also telling her " I’m still here for you if you need me. I’m not sure why at this point. But, you mean more to me then you realize." When she called me she was nicer then she had been in a long time and just told me about how her day is going. I'm wondering if she is relieved that I now know. Maybe we can actually start working on being friends again. Right now. I feel the ball is in my court. I can either walk and hurt her like every other man has done in her life or stand for her. I will keep standing for awhile.
thanks guys.
Originally Posted By: AmyC
Originally Posted By: BrokenMarriage07
We had a 3some when we were in London a couple years ago. She talked me into it.
Holy CRAP! That's too much information!
I'm just kidding .
It doesn't have to ruin your marriage and it doesn't change your method of operation either.
Follow the DB prinicples, work on yourself and your own shortcomings/oversights within the marriage, get a life and let your wife sort this out for herself. Don't put pressure on her and don't make her feel bad. Trust me, she already does.
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