MoJo Lol- You kind of freaked me out for a minute I was saying in a round-about way, I like clean but don't have to have perfection, maybe like Mrs. Cemar and some other LD spouses.
BTW the shower head was what our and other families had when I lived in Florida around 1960, and it was outside with only a shower curtain attaches to a U shaped pipe for privacy.
If you wanted warm water, showers were in the afternoon. The pipe going to the shower was routed along the roof.
If you wanted privacy/concealment, showers were at night and cold.
You ask, hot water? LOL What is that. Oh yea that was heated on a wood burning stove in the kitchen in a pan and not connected to the showerhead.
Wood for the stove, that was my job since 4~5th grade.
One down side of internet dating is that every once in a while I think about the fact that over 1000 men (actually it is probably less than a 1000 men because some of them have probably looked at it more than once) have looked at my "monkey" picture and asked themselves if they'd like to date me So is that good or bad?
I think I can tell you my opinion about the picture but don't want to sound out of line or like I am hitting on you.
I can say I saw an attractive woman that was cutting up, having fun, etc. I never thought anything like your H said to you (too fat, too nerdy, etc)
My only thought to what some men might think was, how silly does this gal get. Do I want to be that silly if she is at the far end of the silly scale? But that is also a lot of conjecture on my part, based on one picture.
I thought the one picture I saw was, Hum, looks good, if I were to rate it. I didn't see what you posted in any of your profiles and don't know your MO for replying interested / not interested when someone shows an interest, based on an Internet dating site profile.
I know "too nerdy to fvck" hurt, but that was 2BXH opinion, not reality.
I can let my tin-can showerhead make me feel less than, but why? Prior to the tin-can shower head we didn't have running water, so the tin-can showerhead was an upgrade from what we had.
Fast forward 45 years. Now I have get use to ordering dog food like I was at Starbucks.
I will have some senior, less active, with omega 3, no by products, lite, extra fiber, no corn meal, not with any ingredients from China, with garden vegetables and real beef dog food and some less active, with hair-ball preventer, low ash, coat enhancing, indoor formula cat food.
Me? I will have a plain taco and a diet cola.
So, you feeling lots, lots, better about yourself these days? It looks like you are.
