And exactly how does speaking WOA to a 47 year old women in menopause give here a sex drive? That seems like a pretty huge leap of faith.
Cemar you have gotten a lot of great advice here. While there is no guarantee it will work or at least that it will work perfectly or immediately, what is really the reason you don't want to try speaking WOA or AOS to your wife? To me if you were REALLY desperate to make things work you would be willing to try anything no matter how unusual. And in this case being appreciate and compassionate toward your wife hardly seems unusual.
By the way have you actually READ the 5 Love Languages book?? I am curious because you don't seem to understand the concept at all.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
