Oh and on a side note...I caught H thumbing through my copy of DR the last night. He sort of laughed at it. I am so thrilled he finds my efforts humorous.
There isn't enough in that book as far as a road map for WAS. Maybe her next book will focus on helping us find our way back to the LBS.
Frustrating that he finds it "humorous" (wish I knew what specific parts of it he laughed at). In all actuality though, it might've been a defense mechanism for him to laugh. I don't know. You're right though, not much help to a WAS, other than it helping you to look at where your feelings and actions are coming from maybe. I just posted the same thing somewhere about Michele needing to write a book for WASs that want to save their marriage or come back to their S's or ex S's.
Hope IC sesh goes well, as well as the MC one. Hope H takes the blow to the head well and it doesn't just bounce off of him and back at you! It might actually take a few days for the whole thing to really sink in for him, so give him that benefit of the doubt. His pride will likely be hurting fresh from the blow.