chicki's drama cont. part II he's ready to talk

[Heimlich]

Chicki,
I've only read a little bit on your sitch, so excuse me for butting in, but have you asked yourself the basic questions of
1. do I still want this to work
2. if yes, will telling him not to take the kids to OW's going to help or hurt?

Is what he's doing wrong. Absolutely. Will telling him he can't take them to OW's totally sever the R?

Dunno, but I get the sense that you're conflicted on questions 1 and 2 and just trying to throw a little clarification there.

Good luck,

BD