I have my list prepared for the MC sesh on Sat AM. Very direct needs and direct suggestions on how to meet them.
I called the MC to discuss this and the recent incidents but no call back yet.
I meet with my IC tomorrow and will probably bounce some ideas off her. She is very good at helping me rephrase things from "You" statements into "I" statements so it doesn't sound like I am accusing and berating the man. God knows I need to have an IC session with all the emotions and what not going around in my head. I have been suffering a deep depression since I left the house. I just feel hopeless right now as there hasn't been much progress and things look bleaker than before.
Oh and on a side note...I caught H thumbing through my copy of DR the last night. He sort of laughed at it. I am so thrilled he finds my efforts humorous.
There isn't enough in that book as far as a road map for WAS. Maybe her next book will focus on helping us find our way back to the LBS.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.