Pamar, I understand just how you feel when we're not suppose to say anything and just detach. I want to talk to my wife. I have no intentions of begging or bringing up her relationship I just want to talk to her and I feel like she should be okay with that. But since she has her bootycall or whatever she can no longer talk to her husband. This really sux. I'm not ready for her to move in, I just want to be able to communicate like a normal human being.