Hey Stew

I know this is confusing. Saying one thing, doing another. If you are enjoying having her at home I would just keep moving along and not question it.

I have ask does she have the finances available to get her own place and move? Is this part of the holdup?

If not, if she is financially able to move but hasn't I can only infer that maybe she is having second thoughts or has changed her mind completely.

Of course, she could be testing the waters, but a random night here and there at the friends house doesn't give me that impression.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.