I have questions for you. MY H like yours seems to wnats to return back home & has told the girls this on several occasions,but I feel its for the wrong reasons(solely for the kids he misses so much). I also think the reality is slowly starting to kick in for him & OW. She wants him to help her out $ ,but he can't afford to for he still pays our house and the utilities. He seems sad & on one occasion said he was miserable,but says we can'tlive together we dont get along.
We r physically seperated but not LEGALLY. So lately I have my doubts as to letting him tke the girls for the weekend to OW. This for two reasons: first for selfsih reasons & b/c i feel like I am making his lifestyle easier for him. Should I push him to get make this legal if he wants overnites w/ the girls???