Curiosity brought me over to read your thread. Not really sure why.
There is nothing about divorce that is fair but it does bring closure. Believe me after we have traveled this road for any length of time closure is a breath of fresh air. For me the unknown was worse. Now I was able to get my act together and plan my path.
My new found happiness didn't come without a price, but I feel as if I am a much better person (more compassionate & appreciative) for having gone through what I have!