And exactly how does speaking WOA to a 47 year old women in menopause give here a sex drive? That seems like a pretty huge leap of faith.
That's not why you do it, Cemar. You do it simply because you feel it's the right thing to do. Now, if you DON'T feel that way, don't do it, because she will sense your insincerity. But if you DO feel that it's the right thing to do, then do it, without looking for something in return.