I should be happy...but I'm not

[NNP1965]

I wish I had a nickle for every time I have read this phrase on these boards.

I just wish my WAS would have sat me down and made me understand how unhappy he was....

I think you do need to talk to your wife about being unhappy. Make sure that she understands that you love her and want her to be healthy so she will be with you for a long time.

I also wanted to say that I think it is comendable that you are here searching for an answer instead of off trying to "find your own happiness".