Thank you all. At least it's out in the open now. I love her so much. I want to keep fighting for her. We had a 3some when we were in London a couple years ago. She talked me into it. Ofcourse, its every guys fantasy. We were on vacation so I said what da heck? Well, I had no idea it would ruin my marriage. I cant believe how stupid I was. She had a rough childhood. I dont want to be just another man that gives up on her.

I will keep Dbing and see if now that she knows I know that we can work on being friends again.

thanks again, BM07