Wife gone...Is there hope (Part 2)

[Nomopo]

Hi Strange. On my BB, so haven't read everything, but

Now, here's what i'm not so sure about...Do I tell her it's not my choice to get a D but will go along with it but make it clear that it is her choice.

OR...Should I just say, sure a D is the best idea all round, knock yourself out.

I think the first of these two options is the way to go.

Good luck,
Nomo