High and Aud, thanks for your perspectives and agree. I havent thrown anything on this thread because I have just kind of stumbled through day after day. My m is still being built daily reconstructing the dismantled foundation we were left with when all this happened. I admire my W with what she has accomplished with her WILL to work things out. As Aud would say, I am blessed. We are trying to move as a team as are doing so by everything I have seen. I really dont have much to post and except throw a heartbeat out there that I am still beating. I hope all for everyone is moving in the only direction it should...forward...