sorry to hear your situation, but i'm happy you are protecting yourself and it sounds like things will work out for you in the end.
I was suprised too that it wasn't the infidelity that hurt but the deceit and lies that go along with it. I don't believe my wife is lying to me currently however if she was I think it too would be a dealbreaker.
good luck and don't let her manipulate you into agreeing to anything less than you deserve.
