Hey NA
Having a slow day at work. Thought I would check to see if you were back online. I understand going somewhere w/ kids w/o your H would be tough given the memories.

There is a way to give space with doting or following H around. That is my challenge at home too. Just be super polite when you are around, try to find humor in things (I always find that humor cant be reciprocated w/ resentment or anger so...) and just PMA. So easy to say, but just think about it. I have said this elsewhere and keep saying it for myself mostly, if you project a Positive Self, dont you want to be around people like that? Shadow of doubt as they say.

What do you think!

CVA


Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.