Sad,

I do not think it would be a good idea to dicconect the phone from her now.

Look at it this way she may be using it to talk to him but, she also uses it to talk to you and that is still staying connected to a point.

My suggestion is to ask to discuss it in person and maybe come to a comprmise on the break. Do not argue with her. If she won't compimise you need to except that. You can not change her you can only change you.

When and if you do talk to her do some DBing and 180's as discussed earlier in your posts.

You can not force things on her right now she needs to figure this out.

JAK

Last edited by jak58; 07/26/07 03:31 PM.
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