"The OW/OM is their drug of choice. This person helps them to numb their pain from the past versus deal with it. They run right in to the arms of someone who will understand them and not judge them. The OW/OM are a temporary bandaid to their search for happiness."
That about sums it up for my wife...
My counselor said it is like spouse being addicted to drugs/alcohol. The op is the drugs or the phone or web cam is the whiskey bottle. Never the less people get cured all the time, I guess they need to realize it's a problem first.
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Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt
