Lou - what attracts us when we are younger, as opposed to what attracts us when we are older (as you are well aware) are MUCH different.

That is the one of the major problems with a lot of the people on this board. They want things to "be the way they were" - things will NEVER be the way they were, too much has happened, people change and so do relationships. All we can hope for is some genuine compromising to enable us to come together in the middle.

We all have boundaries and if we can give and take a little perhaps we can also try not to make our boundaries so rigid so as to push our S away

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)