WAW Yes, I echo all the ideas above. Control check, Momma's boy check. For your sake and your Ds, I would think you need to take a harder stand. On the atty front, I always view that as "advice", not right or wrong. Kinda like surgeons. Surgeons like to do surgery, in my experience, litigators like to litigate, so my pt is, just take some decent advice and "fit" it to your sitch, just like all the DBing and advice around here. No right or wrong, just guidelines.
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Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.