sounds like a canned suggestion, but have you done counceling? I dont' know how my H and I would've done it without it. There are reasons why your M took the turn it did, and maybe those issues aren't being addressed and he's just using the "beyond repair" excuse to end it. OR he could be depressed, in which case everything in his eyes is hopeless.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.