Hi,

First off if you want to work it out I would not recommend disconnecting the phone unless you want her gone. Secondly, I recommend worrying less about who she is with and more about what you need to do for yourself. I read it earlier but do something for yourself. It is difficult to not obsess about your significant others whereabouts, but I would go along with whatever she says for now. I also would not contact her for a few days and if she calls, do not return the call or return it the next day. Your not in a rush, to talk to her also sorry to say you are in game mode. Unfortunately you need to change tactics what you are doing is not working so try the opposite, but I recommend being available if she wants to see you, but let her initate the contact.


Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!