I have come to see your marriage in a different light, after you made some mention of your wife's aversion to intimacy and touch. Your comments now seem consistent with this. But you are still left with the problem of what to do about it. That means you are going to have to help yourself, and if you want ideas from people here, you are going to have to help them come up with suggestions. When are you going to tell us more about you and your wife's background and what you think may have contributed to her being this way. Did she ever experience or see some sort of trauma or abuse in her past?
