WAW,

Right or wrong, my gut reaction is that, yes, you are being too nice. What gives him the right to dictate when/how you can see your D? That's awful.

I agree with Atlas, it's like he's still trying to control you/the situation, which gets back to the point you've made many times about how he ignores/minimizes your feelings.

I don't know what the appropriate whack to this guy's forehead is going to be that might wake him up, but, yeah, something. How's that for some nice, vague advice?

I can't speak for all of us LBHs, but I'll guess that we'd all be ecstatic with your openness and willingness to work on the R were you our WAW.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.