Thanks Hope...You are in good shape. Horse lover or not you will find someone that will support your interests.
Journaling: I had a brief conversation with my W yesterday about my parenting plan and thoughts about asset division and CS. I think we are in agreement when it comes custody, though we differ on how our assets should be divided. She feels that her checking account is hers(I cannot touch it) and everything else is ours(50/50). She is also trying to guilt me into paying off her car because I spent money on mine and I payed for my L out of our money. Using her logic our money is not hers, that money came from my work not hers. She tried to throw back at me that I guess a judge will have to decide then, to which I answered that I have no issues with that(Funny she actually used my line on me, I am the one that keeps saying that we will just have to let the judge and L's decide then). If this is what she wants it will cost her more and prolong this a bit. Although I am not sure if I want to prolong this anymore, I am now at the point that I want her out on her own. I do not want have to walk around her anymore at home.
I really am starting to wonder if I should be giving her my thoughts on all of the money/asset stuff. I thought we would come to some kind of agreement and then tell our L's. But that doesn't look to be happening now. I just hope I am not shooting myself in the foot by doing this.
