Yoyo, Only a few of my ils have accepted OW...most of them hate her. They see her as the person that destroyed our marriage. I agree...H screwed up and had an affair but she has convinced H to take things too far...making our marriage unsalvageable.
I actually have the words live, laugh, and love hanging on the wall in my house. My mil gave them to me shortly after this all started. I'm trying to live by them.
Mike, I have a phone consult with another attorney today...trying to cover all my bases without H knowing. I'm going to run the "all ground" issue and signing of the Entry of Appearance, Waiver, & Consent Form past him. I plan on sending the signed Judgment of Dissolution and Irreconcilable Differences Waiver to his attorney along with a letter that says... Re: The Marriage of XXXX and XXXX XXXX
Dear Mr. XXXX,
Please find the enclosed signed documents: 1. Waiver and Stipulation of Two Year Period 2. Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage
The Entry of Appearance, Waiver, & Consent Form does not contain specific language stating that our assets would be divided according to Item #2--Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage. Please add language to the Entry of Appearance, Waiver, & Consent Form stating that our assets will be divided according to the Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage that I reviewed and signed. If you are unable to mail me an updated form, please let me know and I will arrange to pick up and sign for any papers that you need to give to me, so I do not have to be served. Thank you.
My contact information is: XXXX
Sincerely, XXXX _______ Any thoughts?
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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