SD you will relate to this cos I asked him what it was that brought him out of his mini MLC and he said "I don't know it wasn't a concious decision" GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
But I find him repeating some of the things I have said over the past couple of years ... eg "people make themselves happy", "life sometimes isn't fair" ... so it looks like it's been some kind of DB osmosis.
He's not a quitter. He said so himself. He def went through some kind of MLC or depression. He doesn't like people who give up too easily .... he believes that each problem DOES have an answer, it's just that some answers are harder to find than others.
At times I find myself reacting to the old H, at times I have to force myself to rememeber he's changed. I must say it does take a long time of consistent change to convince someone you have changed. I remember early on in my sitch I got discouraged cos H didn't accept I'd changed. Now I realise it's taken me most of this year to accept H has changed. Patience ... slow and steady wins.
So - in essence both H and I have changed and the way we interact has vastly changed. Life is good.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
