Trying to make it work

[soul_mate]

Not sure what I am going to do. I need to talk with her more, but I want to wait until the right time.

She is the dominant one right now but I am letting her be more so now since I think I have caused a lot of the problems in the R. She says I am really the dominant one, but I make her feel like the dominant one to appease her. One of her complaints about our R was that I always made the important decesions and she felt her option did not matter. I though she was involved with the decesions, but obviously she didn't feel that way.

The bottom line is sooner or later she must try to make the R work and stop holding on to the problems of the past. The problem is this is her decesion and there is not much I can do other than wait or leave.

I am always talking about the problems on these posts, but our R is not all bad.