Yea! Good. I need to avoid the routine. I have to be careful to make sure he doesn't think that his being around will make me go back to the way things were. It is tough because we really did exist well together. It wasn't until the MLC kicked in that we stopped moving through life in a symbiotic way. I have to make sure he sees that I am NOT the person he left, that I have changed for the better and it has nothing to do with whether or not he's around. OK. Thanks for the reminder!
...still hanging in there!
M - 40 H - 45 (Big Time MLC - Currently House Hopping) S - 11 (w/ Asperger's Syndrome Autism) D - 5 (w/ Type 1 Diabetes) 1 Dog and 2 Cats Married 10/92, Bomb 10/06, H moved out Mother's Day 07 (Sweet huh?)
