Well........I think I would go for it. I wouldn't mentioned things working out (or not) with OM...or the fact that you may have "moved on". Just bringing up the subject of the OM is too distracting/emotional/guilt/angry...(?)...for her. The suggestion of you possibly "moving on" almost sounds like a threat and could result in her becoming angry. So, I would stay away from those subjects all together so it doesn't "backfire" on you.

I know that I am a romantic, but I think somewhere in the back of women's minds they want to think that their men fought for them. For her to know that you tried one last time to reach out (fight)for her....tells her that you still care and that you want to be with her...and it gives her an invitation/opportunity to change her mind....if she so choses. But, I wouldn't wait till the day of signing of D......much too emotional....do it before and it gives her some time to think about what you have said to her.

Good luck!


Last edited by sandi2; 07/26/07 03:20 AM.
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