Conveniently, I think a lot of his new friends are divorced and OW's parents are divorced also.
The way it appears to me this is exactly what my W has done. She is talking to D'ed, seperated, people having or had A's, and the people that do not fit this bill is her family.
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Quote: I do think she got sucked into something bad and evil. Now she is trying to take some control, unfortunately for me it is the easy way out. Couldn't have said it better myself...seems to be an all too familiar comment from us LBS.
I think the reason that you see this message and ones similar is the people that make it to this board believe in M and really want to believe in their S's. We try to think the best of everyone. If it wasn't for our sitch's we would probably be a collection of glass half full kind of people. We start off fighting like hell to save our M(thankfully some do), but once we start grieving our M we realizes that a piece of us went missing through the years while M. Most of us, I'm guilty of this, would have given anything to our S's if it where humanly possible. We gave so damn much over the years that we dropped pieces of ourself off so that we can become someone we are not. Hell before I got married I was living out my childhood dream, I gave it up for my W. I used to take time out for myself, fishing, workingout, having a beer with friends, that all went out the window during my M. I did not realize it but I feared screwing up by making her unhappy somehow. By doing so I screwed myself in a sense.
I can be wrong but I think there is an awful lot of people on this board that have similar stories, fortunately for us we have this board. If we all are truely honest(I believe we are) unsolicited feedback and persepective give us all a great chance to see our flaws and short comings. It also shows us that we are not bad people and we do not deserve this kind of treatment. Wow, I am rambling now....sorry about that.......
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Things are starting to turn around a bit for me. I feel like God is really helping me out...things keep going good for me...while H's life just keeps getting worse and worse.
I am glad to hear that things are going well for you. You deserve good fortune. You are an awesome women and some future guy will be lucky to be with you. Heck if you have horses on your land my D5 would think your pretty awesome chick too and she has never communicated with you.
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Keep praying and things will turn around for you too.
I am whenever I get the chance. I have to admit my emotional/spiritual energy level is running low rightnow. Prayer has become hard for some reason. When this all began this definitly was not the case, my W has worn me down a bit. I have noticed lately that I am not as worn out, which is a good thing.
